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Ask The Minister...?


All too often we want to “ask a Minister” a sometimes sensitive question. The question might be an embarrassing one or you may for some reason feel it’s a “stupid” question. Well, now you can ‘ask away’ in the strictest confidence.

We will answer all questions emailed to us. There are no conditions attached. You may remain ‘anonymous’ if you wish. The answer is what’s important.


It could be that before you get married, you need clarity or closure on a specific issue.  Yours may be one regarding "gay marriage", or a conflict of religious beliefs within the family.  You’re absolutely right to seek guidance, clarity or an answer.


No need to be afraid or embarrassed.  Just be open and accepting of 'truths' and possibilities.  You will be that much wiser if you do.  It’s powerful to voice your thoughts, or your hesitations.  You can discuss them with us freely without feeling pre-judged.


Don’t go into marriage blindly, or hoping to change your partner in any way.  This is so wrong!  Learn about acceptance and giving and how you can contribute to your partnership, not contaminate it.


Get YOURSELF right, deal with everything openly, truthfully and honestly – it’s a GREAT start.  It's the ONLY start!


We’ve already had a flood of questions on the following issues and we’d be delighted to help you with yours.

  • Adopting my partner’s children
  • Control issues – anger - distrust
  • Doubts about Loyalty and Trust
  • When Ego Gets in The Way
  • Substance abuse
  • Finances – parents – bereavement
  • Getting beyond past issues
  • I’m the 2nd wife and feel I have to measure up because I’m being compared
  • My Wife-to-be is Pregnant and it’s not my baby
  • Parenting – rebellious kids - sickness
  • Religion – our religious beliefs differ, how do we go forward together
  • Sexual problems – cultural problems
  • The ‘In-Laws’ to be
  • How to cut wedding costs
  • What you want for your Future
  • Is he/she really the right partner?
  • Naming Ceremony | Christenings - "What if I'm not a Christian"?





You say: "It's impossible"


God says: All things are possible

(Luke 18:27)

You say: "I'm too tired"


God says: I will give you rest

(Matthew 11:28-30)

You say: "Nobody really loves me"


God says: I love you

(John 3:16 & John 3:34)

You say: "I can't go on"


God says: My grace is sufficient

(II Corinthians 12:9 & Psalm 91:15)


You say: "I can't figure things out"


God says: I will direct your steps

(Proverbs 3:5-6)

You say: "I can't do it"


God says: You can do all things

(Philippians 4:13)

You say: "I'm not able"


God says: I am able

(II Corinthians 9:8)

You say: "It's not worth it"


God says: It will be worth it

(Roman 8:28)

You say: "I can't forgive myself"

God says: I Forgive you

(I John 1:9 & Romans 8:1)


You say: "I can't manage"


God says: I will supply all your needs

(Philippians 4:19)


You say: "I'm afraid"

God says: I have not given you a spirit of fear


(II Timothy 1:7)

You say: "I'm always worried and frustrated"


God says: Cast all your cares on ME

(I Peter 5:7)

You say: "I don't have enough faith"


God says: I've given everyone a measure of faith


(Romans 12:3)

You say: "I'm not smart enough"


God says: I give you wisdom

(I Corinthians :30)


You say: "I feel all alone"

God says: I will never leave you or forsake you

(Hebrews 13:5)


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